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#1 OFFLINE   pam

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Posted 13 September 2011 - 03:00 AM

went to an appointment for my mil and they reordered home health care. I'm hoping that it goes through this time because im stressed out and ready to give up caring for her. but i know that wouldn't be the right decision because she couldn't totally help from being in this situation. its not like after her triple by pass she had a chance to change her life style and manage her diabetes correctly. i really feel like why the hell am i taking care of her when she put her self here in a way. I know i shouldn't feel this way but i do.

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Posted 13 September 2011 - 07:59 AM

pam it important for her or you to manage her diabetes dont give up on her you have to think shes like a baby and right now she needs your help till
the carers step in gave it a bit more time it will all fall in place soon

#3 OFFLINE   lyndie

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Posted 14 September 2011 - 09:36 PM

Hiya pam,

As Barry has already said, don't give up on your mother-in-law, she needs you. I'm sure the pressure and stress on you will ease when you can get a care plan in place and then that in turn will help with your MIL's recovery.

I know how hard it is for you and can understand how you feel and so many different emotions all at the same time.

It will get easier Pam, hang on in there, love Lyndie




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